Your negative behaviors that should have been left behind in childhood are keeping you from flourishing, thriving and progressing in your relationships, job, health and finances.
Some people are able to behave accountable and responsible in their working environment but are quite the opposite in their relationships.
As a result, people who can behave like a responsible adult at work will flourish in their work. They will be considered for and granted promotions and pay raises. They may even receive annual bonuses, company vehicle, several weeks of paid vacation time, shares, and other high-level perks from the business or company.
If you’re a self-employed individual who treats your clients and employees well, you will have a thriving business. But, again, if you don’t take full responsibility for your actions in your personal relationships, these relationships will be challenging and are often at risk of you going separate ways.
So, it’s not enough that you show integrity in your work and are maybe seen as a model employee, you have to be congruent across domains – work/career, relationships, health and finances.
And the only people who win and succeed in every domain across the board, are those who allow themselves to be loved, love themselves and love others.
All 3 must be true. You know how to love yourself first and foremost, and then love others unconditionally and are always open to receiving love in return.
Love is not to be withheld. You are a lover made of love from love.
If you are consciously or subconsciously withholding your love for someone, you are quite literally sabotaging your life, well-being and your abundance.
You’re crippling your life because you fear and or you’re stingy or greedy.
Love is meant to be shared and reciprocated.
Any negative behavior, attitude, belief or thoughts that cause mental, emotional, physical or spiritual suffering (including depravity) towards yourself or another is not only cruel but childish.
If you are 20 years old or older and you are withholding love from another, for any reason, you are being unjust and you have an impoverished heart.
What do you think your life is all about?
If your answer doesn’t just say, “To love, love myself and to be loved.” you haven’t figured out that you’re wrong, yet!
This dream we call life is temporary, at best, and is long and empty without loving, at worst.
I’m not talking about petty love, the kind of love we give our partners, children, family and friends. No … the love you are expected to offer to yourself and others is the highest love of all, UNCONDITIONAL love.
Anything else is fake and full of conditions.
It’s like learning a new trick, it’s never too late to tap into your Soul to learn about this love It has for you so that you can start giving it of yourself, freely and joyfully, irregardless of whether it’s reciprocated or not.
That’s not your business.
Your business is to become the lover you ARE and share it freely and without regret or limitations.
That’s the purpose for your life and in truth, you’re ONLY purpose.
It’s time to grow up and lay your childish toys aside. Just love!
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Kory M Wood, Author 